Drew Haven a.k.a. Periodic

Values

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I am doing an experiment with trying to clearly define my values so that I can know when I am living up to them.

The psychologist Carl Rogers described the idea of congruence/incongruence. It’s roughly the difference between your lived self and your ideal self. It’s the difference between “I am” and “I should”. Incongruence, a large gap between the two, leads to a tension between what you are doing and what you think you should be doing. I believe that everyone will be happier and experience more of their potential if they are living and growing in line with their ideals.

My Values

Equity

  • Everyone should have the means to live a healthy and meaningful life.
  • This applies to people now and in the future.
  • Everyone should have a fair voice in decisions that affect them.

Integrity

  • Take responsibility for your own actions.
  • Hold others accountable and responsible for their actions.
  • Give honest feedback.
  • Take the time to do good work and be proud of it.
  • Be your authentic self.

Sustainability and long-term thinking

  • Think not about the short- or long-term, but about the equilibrium, the forever-term.
  • Do not sacrifice the future for the present.
  • Do not sacrifice the present for the future.

Cooperation over competition

  • We build better when we work together.
  • We can challenge each other without having to compete.
  • Resources should not be scarce.
  • Share information, materials and goods.
  • Hold others responsible for sharing alike.

Self-improvement

  • Be curious and motivated to learn and understand.
  • Be open to feedback.
  • Seek to understand.
  • Embrace failure as an opportunity to learn.
  • Take the time to review and retrospect.
  • Help others learn and grow by giving them resources, training and feedback.

Self-reliance

  • Enable everyone to work with minimal interruption by reducing the dependence on each other.
  • We should work together but not be dependent on one another.
  • Many strong units weakly coupled are more resilient than rigid or hierarchical structures.
  • Invest in your health and stability.

Corollaries

Environmentalism

  • We must preserve our planet so that future people will have at least the same opportunities we currently do.

Anti-capitalism

  • Modern capitalism is a system that is built on and perpetuates inequity.
  • Modern capitalism creates and exploits dependency.